Are you in golden handcuffs?

When I went to Law school, I thought I was doing what was best for me.

I come from a family of government workers, who have the most stable jobs in my country – so I’ve always been encouraged to get a stable job.

Law sounded interesting – and if I could combine “interesting” with “a good paycheck,” well, isn’t that a great idea?

But my interest in Law soon dwindled, even before I graduated. Then I decided to become a diplomat—I love traveling and learning languages, and that sounded wonderful! And the fact that the paycheck is great doesn’t hurt either.

So, you can imagine my dread when I realized I did not want to become a diplomat anymore. Or work in the government. Or do anything with my Law degree, for that matter.

I could have kept going with the flow – many people stay in a job they hate only for the paycheck.

Working 40 hours a week in a job you hate, sacrificing your happiness for financial security.

Enduring long hours of misery to enjoy a brief respite on weekends.

How draining is that?

These are golden handcuffs. You might have the money, but you’re mostly unhappy.

For me, life is about more than just earning a paycheck.

Of course, I must pay the bills. We all do. However, focusing solely on financial gain at the expense of personal happiness and fulfillment can leave you empty and unfulfilled.

When I gave up Law, and the idea of becoming a full-time artist popped into my mind, I spiraled. After all, I would starve, right? Everybody knows artists starve.

Newsflash: they don’t. And while I don’t make even half the money I could make as a judge or a diplomat…

I’m so much happier now.

I don’t have daily migraines anymore.

I’m not on edge 24/7, ready to snap at anyone.

I have calm days filled with a passion that drives me. And even with all the hardships…

It’s exciting!

Shifting your focus from merely earning money to living a fulfilling life can generate the happiness you seek.

As an artist, I can enjoy my work every day. My goal isn't to be rich but to live well, finding joy and purpose in my daily activities.

I might not make loads of money and retire early… but honestly, retirement loses its appeal when every day feels rewarding.

I feel like this – being an artist – is something I can do for decades to come, so while I do save for my retirement, it’s not a significant worry.

If you also want to make this shift, start by identifying what truly brings you joy and fulfillment.

Evaluate your current job and lifestyle – are they aligned with your passions and values?

If not, consider ways to incorporate more of what you love into your daily routine.

It might mean pursuing a career change, sure. Or it might mean starting a side hustle that excites you, or simply making more time for hobbies and interests that bring you joy.

There’s not only one path to follow. Choose what makes you happiest!

When you focus on living well rather than just earning money, you'll find greater satisfaction and happiness in your everyday life.

You’ll no longer live for the weekends but enjoy every day to the fullest.

Cheers to a fulfilling life!